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FairPlay
Don’t shoot an own goal.

To make sex with a sex worker more enjoyable and fun, keep the following guidelines in mind:

  1. Politeness, respect and a pleasant appearance will open many doors – and more.

  2. Alcohol may help you overcome your fears, but it also affects your ability to keep it up. In other words: The less you drink the more fun you’ll have..

  3. A man keeps his word. Be clear from the start about what you want and what it will cost. It prevents disappointment in the long run.

  4. No means no. For example, tongue play while kissing is usually out of bounds. Every business has its limits..

  5. With a condom, or with a condom – the choice is yours. Black, green, blue, ribbed or with pleasure bumps – take your pick. Not using a condom, however, is a major foul.

  6. If you suspect violence or force is being used, what should you do? Don’t try to be a hero. Find out where the nearest hotline is for sex workers, for example at www.freiersein.de..

  7. Business is business – and not love, even if your time together was wonderful. That means: Stay cool and keep your feet on the ground.

  8. Pressure doesn’t help performance. Sometimes it just doesn’t work. That’s ok. Just relax and, when the time’s right, give it another go.

  9. When it comes to sex, there’s no money-back guarantee. If you’re not satisfied, talk about it. If you’re smart, you won’t lose your head. Whatever happens, don’t demand your money back.

  10. The neighbors want to get some sleep and are not interested in your sex life. Really.